books-1099672_640Why do certain family members engender the same reactions in you over and over?  It is all programming, and the ego thrives on it.  Would you like to change?  Would you like to change to a more positive, loving state of mind with those you love?  See them as your friends do … those friends who did not live through the ups and downs you experienced with those who push your buttons.  They have no history or herstory with your family.  If you can rid yourself of the stories and simply enjoy them in the now as others do, you will see another side of them and feel a more loving side of you:  the soul, which chose your family for the growth they afford you.  Without the stories, you are all One Soul.  Find that in your family members and find peace.