To whom do you give your power? To authority figures? To lovers? To higher beings in form or in the higher realms? And why do you do so? What do you hope to gain? Why, love of course. Perhaps you answered safety, guidance, comfort. And all of these lead back to the most basic desire for knowing love. Know yourself as Love, love, and you will seek outside yourself no more. You will retain your sovereignty with no need to lord it over anyone, for you will have found that you are all One.
You are so very loved.
THAT is powerfullly said in a wholeness… … so complete.
Science shows us that trauma, especially in infant years, ( which could be something quite innocuous, but interpreted as trauma by a baby/toddler,) can lay down patterns of nervous system response such as freeze or dorsal, that are resistant to being broken out of without the ability to have the support of the trained help. Such experiences make later experiences like adult trauma more likely. If that ability is blocked, the Gordian knot continues, which is makes everyone’s life miserable:- it’s self defeating.