How do you speak to a dear friend? Do you tell them what to do without softening your words? Then, why do you tell those nearest to you what to do in not so soft words? You do so because they are so much a part of your energy field that you feel they are an extension of you. All beings are an extension of the one Source, dear one. May you come to see all beings as precious and equal in deserving the softest, most loving thoughts and words. This is how those in the higher realms see you. Perhaps as you come to see yourself as precious and worthy of respect, you will speak only the language of love.
You are so very loved.
I’m afraid i often soeak to dear friends freely… in whatever way strikes mexat the time, which is not always “gentle”. I have lost friends because of that. They were friends but they felt i was disrespecting them even when and though that was certainly not my intention. Yet, i might have considered speaking gently before i spoke. That might have avoided a loss of time with my friend.