Life seeks balance: Give and take … thinking of self and thinking of others. When life is not flowing, seek first and foremost to find the imbalance. Do understand how a pendulum swings. The farther to one side the imbalance exists, it will equal out to the other. Perhaps you may choose not to go so far out of balance. To be centered is not boring. It is where freedom lies. Enjoy the journey to either side but spend some time in the center as you travel back and forth.
You are so very loved.