When you try to connect with a loved one who has passed, how do you try? This makes all the difference. If you go through human steps and processes like a machine, you will be less likely to make the connection. It is not the steps that are the impediment. It is the lack of being guided—of knowing that you are already connected—that that gets in the way. Steps can help you to shift your attention to the awareness that what you are seeking is already here, beyond the thoughts of having to try. Just be. Just sit with an intention and trust. Now listen. Be aware. Trust that your intention will be filled beautifully with no trying whatsoever on your part, for those who have passed are here … beyond all the efforting. Trust.
You are so very loved.
Saw you on YouTube looking forward to getting your newsletter been threw a major transformation after the death of my mom, than husband with in two months then for toppers the only real help with my husband his brother died a month to day of him. Family of origin never a stable relationship since my father passed 15 years ago. Doing my best to show them what unconditional love looks like. But unfortunately I feel they still don’t have a clue. They have made it extra complicated, when simpler ways should be at play. Doing my best to release any and all passed but the trama of decades of heartache at the hands of people who claim they love and respect you. Well I’m sure you know.
I woke up in a puddle this morning. It’s crazy how it hits you, this crazy thing called grief.
I had events from work last night, caught in the hamster wheel and couldn’t get the little fellow to stop. Whenever that happens I know it’s more of a distraction to what’s really going on at a deeper level.
My Dad died, for heaven’s sake (a little over 2 months ago) and I’ve barely given my emotions a chance to breathe…to just sit with them and try not to squirm out from under them.
This post from S&S as Lynette lovingly calls them, and her reply, really helped this morning. “Relax now, trust, be at peace, it’s all already here. Just keep listening”.
Thank you.
I remember being 3 or 4, digging in the garden path, making mounds, rivets and valleys with a wooden spoon. My toys were match boxes, and these i intersected with each other to make buildings. Each unit had a garden patch, on a large open patio. Suddenly a smiling sweet voice of woman very quietly spoke, asking “What are you doing today?” I told her i was building homes and gardens. Her smile was brilliant. But the thing is, you’d never know i couldn’t actually see her. But i know she is my guardian angel, and has been with me all my life. There is no other like her, to me. I wish i could explain her to you. But i can’t, except to say, that is the love we all seek, but already have.
I can hardly wait until we are together in spirit.