Once you put a label on someone or something, you run the danger of seeing only this as a wholeness. All that arises within the absolute Wholeness is dynamic and flowing, but labeling ceases the flow. It gives you something to push against instead of to flow with. When you only see the label, you fail to see possibilities. What if you see tendencies and characteristics instead of labeling the wholeness of one with whom you disagree? If you can do this, then you can also begin to see similarities in addition to differences. Then you can find compromise, communication, and compassion instead of impasse.

You are so very loved.