Complacency. It has a similar energy to boredom. When things do not change and remain always the same, there is little motivation for growth. We are speaking of drama today. If you were to watch a favorite show and suddenly everything is going along swimmingly, after a while you would lose interest. Tension maintains interest and spurs growth. A little drama is beneficial. Too much drama and you forget you are a soul playing a role. Ah, this human experience. Finding the balance in all things will keep you busy.
You are so very loved.
So simply and well explained. We just don’t “like it” sometimes, or often. Lol. Anyway… it is the truth so enjoy it. That IS possible even if that takes some getting “used to”. It’s not a matter of manipulating the experiences, it is a matter of accepting them as they are and letting yourself evolve by using the situation for the betterment of all concerned… which means doing so with the intent to be loving, no matter what options arise.
I find it very amusing that I read your message just after spending time on plotting a texte about handweaving. “Finding a good tension” is so crucial when weaving too.