Choose your words very carefully. What you say can be misconstrued quite easily by others, for it must go through their filters after going through yours. Filters are the result of life experience and defensive boundaries. All humans have them. They go with the story. How to get around this? Go first and foremost to the heart. Are you being defensive? Only the ego has something to protect. At the deeper level there is no separation and hence nothing to protect. Go deeper and speak from the heart as a means of staying connected while you share information. Do you notice the difference between “share information” and “state your case”? The former is much more likely to be helpful and be heard.
You are so very loved.