Touch is very sensitive. You can tell the difference between smooth, rough, and finer gradations of each. Smell, taste, and seeing are the same. The sense you use to notice these gradations is discernment. You may not notice those in spirit who are around you because to do so requires a level of discernment that may take time to develop. They are here. There is nowhere else for them to be but here in awareness. You all share one field of Awareness. Start by listening to the thoughts that arise in awareness and discern the difference between what you call “mine” and those that arise as if from “left field.” Catch these from the one Field of Awareness and you will be well on your way to a Home run.
You are so very loved.