What happens in an argument when you drop your defenses? What happens when you cease being me and you? What happens when you take down the barriers, see only connection, know only love? Separation dissolves. It melts away. And what is melting, but the flowing of that which appeared separate and solid into wholeness. Can you do this? Can you see and feel and be the Wholeness when separation causes pain and division? This is a choice that only you can make to discover there is only One, anyway.
You are so very loved.