You are really just a puddle of water. Did you know that? We do not mean this literally, but certainly you are not as solid as you seem. Can you allow yourself to melt into that puddle? What happens now in your liquefied state? Why, now you can flow. Where before you encountered obstacles, for your bulk and solidness did not allow you to move ahead, now you flow easily through the cracks, or around, or under, or even over, depending on how grand of a puddle you choose to be. Melt, my friend, for all is not as hard as you make it out to be.
What a beautiful ans useful idea! Thank you!