Can you wait until the time is just right? How do you know when that is? There is a part of you that wants it now, now, now … that wants to rush and perhaps even get it over with. And there is a part of you that has already set the right time to move forward with your plans and can wait patiently for what needs to unfold for all to happen in the best possible way. That over-eager part has a completely different feel than the patient one, does it not? The difference is a knowing. You are experiencing the difference between ego and soul. Trust the soul. Be patient with the ego, but do not give in to its urging. The soul knows better, and you know you can trust it. All is well. You are so very loved.
Very often, when a person is preparing to cross-over, the clarity over what is and is not truly important in life, gains a brilliance by which they can read the love they desire to share to the fullest with their loved ones.
Usually, that soul-read knowing comes when being terminally ill, but even those who will die swiftly (eg., say in a car accident) have a type of premonition, that brings intense need to show a very loving “side of themselves” that aims to show ONLY LOVE.
At this point, they KNOW they cannot rush Love, they know they are incapable of altering the limited time they have with loved ones; they know they cannot force loved-ones to come to their presence, whom they themselves have “deleted or estranged” from the love they so desperately want now to prove. This knowing of ones’ own crossing-over acutely points to the importance of Love.
It becomes profoundly sad when conditions placed on being a loving person are conditions that ego brings forward.
THE THING IS, IN OUR LIFE, WE ALL KNOW, ALL THE TIME, WHEN WE ARE BEING LOVING AND WHEN WE REFUSE TO BE – THAT WHICH WE WERE CREATED.
When we refuse to be Loving, THAT IS EGO. THAT is when ego has you thinking YOU ARE IN CONTROL. EGO BLINDS YOU. You outright chose to forget you are NOT the only control, nor even the “highest” control.
So…
when is it the RIGHT TIME, to BE.