You feel as if you are spiraling down, when all you want is to feel good again. This is the natural impulse built into your very being to have an aversion to pain and an attraction to pleasure. Grief is perceived as pain. In contrast to such pain, no grief is perceived as pleasure. Feel all of it, please. You came here to this realm of opposites to experience the totality of duality. The grief will pass and then arise in waves, perhaps when you least expect it. Why? For you have loved so fully, and the love is a constant. The love is what never dies. Love is of the soul. Grief is of the human story. The two go hand in hand whilst in human form. It is not a punishment. It adds richness to experience, but you cannot see this while thinking you are only human. You are both a human and the everlasting soul, which is what your loved one across the veil is now. Feel the grief, but know that beneath it lies love. And yes, as you discover you are a soul who is always whole, therein also is found peace.
You are so very loved.
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Thank you, Suzanne, for allowing yourself to be used to do all this good for others. You are the most natural person and I love watching your videos. .
Thanks for your insights. Problem with delivery to the email inbox is that one tends not to post or read comments here. Anyway, thanks, Suzanne and Sanaya.
Susan
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I’ve never been to this site, although I watch Suzanne pretty much daily on you tube. But I was led to the very words I needed to hear today. You have my gratitude.
I love how that happens, Roger!
Thank you x
This has been my experience! Pleasurable memories and painful memories are the same ones because the love continues (love is forever), and with it, the pain of the physical separation continues as well. The pain has subsided a lot in the past 2 years, but it does return in waves. So true! We find a way to move on with gratitude for the time we had together and the happiness we shared, but also with a sense of loss akin to an amputation or being paralyzed. Like amputees and wheelchair bound persons we have to face our new situation with courage and determination to become more able than disabled.
This message is absolutely beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing these messages. They truly make a difference every day in my heart and life.
I love you Suzanne how many helpers to put this website together. I would like to be on your mailing list again thank you!
This message is the first to really touch me. I lost my son a year and a half ago, and although I am still deep in grief, a smile comes to me when I think of him, or I see a photo displayed around the house. This pleasurable smile is quickly followed with pain, tears and a loving longing to turn back the clock.
Pleasure and pain may well be opposites, but they join forces in me every day.
Thankyou for this thought provoking message. ?
Wonderful, timely message/reminder. Thank you !
Hello Suzanne,
You’re such a lovely soul A true humanitarian. So happy to be learning so much with you and Sanaya. My husband past away after 36 years of a wonderful marriage. It’s been almost 3 years since his passing. I believe in love and marriage, My question is, if our loved ones are always around us, how do they feel about us wanting another relationship? How do we date without guilt. If we were to engage in intimacy, how do we know we have privacy? It’s a different type of question, but I’m really curious and want to know. Thank you for all the work you do. Sending you, Love and Light.
We are all both human and souls. Your husband across the veil sees now from the soul perspective. He understands this life is all about relationship and sharing love. Souls want happiness for us in our roles … and growth. They give us our privacy. Think of yourselves in terms of souls. Love to you as well!