Be the presence of love. When the human side of you wishes to judge and blame, be present in awareness of this tendency and shift to soul awareness. When the human side slips into fear, doubt, and worry, shift to soul awareness and be the presence of peace. We could go on and on with examples of human vs. soul characteristics, but you get the picture. Presence and awareness help you to make a choice. You came here to be fully human, but you are also fully a soul.  Choose from moment to moment and you will not become lost in suffering. You are so very loved.