It is not a zero-sum game. There is not “only so much love to go around.” All is love—the connective tissue from which everything arises. You can give and give and give and no one ever runs out. If you forget who you are and do not give love to another you do not lose points, yet you do not experience the joy of sharing and giving. This is a detractor but not a subtractor. Do not keep score. Judge how you are playing the game by all others learning to love as a result of you being here. How does that feel? Utopian, perhaps, yet it is possible as all set aside the winner and loser mentality and realize it is not about winning, but rising together.
You are so very loved.