Shed the “shoulds” … our advice for the day.  In your human world, nothing will bring you
more quickly to dissonance and misalignment with the spirit than the world “should.”  It leads immediately to judgment of another,
which is of the ego and speaks to separation. 
Using “should” states with the certainty based upon belief that your way
is best.  How do you know?  From your experience perhaps it is, but the
other is here for their own life lessons and experiences.  Should (and you will notd the use of the word
“should”) all others think and act as you do? 
This is righteousness.  You may
know it all, but are you here to take away another’s lessons, or to continue
growing yourself?  Shed the shoulds and
you will find that the focus only on your own growth is far more peaceful.