Have you, perhaps, slipped into habitual ways of dealing with certain people without seeing them afresh in each moment?  Was there a time when you got along better, and now you tense when you see them?  Yes, you have a history, and it may have its ups and downs, but beneath all rising and falling in the physical manifestation, there is an underlying connection.  This is what attracted you in the first place.  At one time, you were “in phase.”  Perhaps now you are “out of phase.”  Should you wish to return to better terms, simply shift awareness to that which united you then, now, and all-ways:  the Love of God, which flows out, in, through, and as All That Is.  The choice is yours. 

You are so very loved.