Wholeness is an inside job. Do not look outside yourself for your completeness. Each human is a whole entity unto themself while still being part of one limitless whole. As above, so below. When you feel you are lacking in some way, what you believe you are lacking is already contained within you from the shared field that flows through you, animates you, and refuels you at all times. Do not think in terms of solid matter. This is where you err. You matter, for you are made of the love that connects you all.
You are so very loved.