Yes, those who have passed attend their own funerals. They most especially enjoy the memorial services, for it is then that the focus is solely on the high points, the positives, the happy memories. What a blessing if you could make every moment with your loved ones here and now a memorial service. Celebrate the high points, the love you share, and we dare say it would transform your relationships. Of course, there are low points. You are in human form for the fullness of experience. What goes up does go down, but when the focus remains on the ups, you experience what you truly came here for: the connection … the love. Whether here or in the hereafter, memorialize this.
You are so very loved.