There are times you must do things you do not wish to do. Examine why you are doing them. There is a concept called obligation. Just how far do you wish to take this? Always return to motive. Does it serve the greater good? Does it bring more love into the world, or does it appease some human need that is not in the best interest of yourself or others? The soul knows. Follow those nudges to do or not do a thing and you will be strengthening your self-love muscle.
You are so very loved.
This is often not as obvious as it seems. Weighing and (when necessary) balancing pros and cons is a powerfully personal venture in decision making that you take on by yourself, no matter how much, or little, advice you have received. The saying that “…you are part of the problem, rather than solution,” may (in deed) be the means to “an end realization” that is needed.