You say to-may-to and I say to-mah-to. What difference does it make?  Is one right and one wrong? That is merely a matter of perspective, of point of view. If all you have ever known is to-may-to, you cannot understand to-mah-to, and consider it wrong. The same goes for the one who knows only to-mah-to. Re-evaluate what you have labeled right and wrong. The heart knows what is aligned with love, kindness, compassion, and Joy. All else is relative. Follow your heart, not what someone has taught you if you wish to be guided in your decision-making.

You are so very loved.