What if change is happening, and you do not want to change? Then do not change and see how that feels. Flowers and weeds grow in the same way. Growth happens as a natural part of Life. Whether you like the change or not, it cannot be stopped. Change is the way of things. To resist change is felt as pain or suffering. Flow with change, and the parts of it you do not like, see how you might adjust and take action to ensure more harmonious growth. Bend, flow, grow.
You are so very loved.
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Correct. I was told in my dreams that the law of Change is one of the basic laws within All That Is. Everything changes except the Oneness, the necessity of being of the Oneness and this law of Change itself. This is so fundamental. Socrates himself said that everything ‘flows’, well ‘change’ is the more universal term for that flowing.
This is right, I know, but since the death of my 19-year-old son 4 years ago, it’s so hard to go along with the change. In the message from May 21, you and Sanaya wrote that grief is an emotion that doesn’t last forever. I believe it does last forever, but I have to change to allow its presence in my life. I wanted to write to you then to comment on that. I agree that grief’s intensity comes in waves, but I believe it will always be there until I can be with my son again. What makes it bearable is how I am able to change to accommodate it. That’s the bending, flowing and growing that this message is telling me is needed. I am trying.
Thank you, Suzanne and Sanaya, for being so helpful to me on this unwanted, unexpected change in my life’s path.
With love,
Brenda
I agree that all emotions will always be here,Brenda. How could it be otherwise. Glad you are learning to flow. May the waves of grief subside more easily with time and the awareness of a new relationship with your son.
Grief is another form of love.
My 19 year old child’s life and death is timeless. Was it yesterday or five years ago? My human heart cannot tell the difference. His spirit has given me many signs, like leading me to this site and this comment. Thank you
Suzanne- I wished to say thank you for all that you and your beautiful team do to bring this community together. I attended your webinar (?) on July 5! Always wonderful and poignant messages. In the chat – with all, I noted a beautiful book which could provide great healing for those grieving but in particular grieving those who passed by suicide. I erred in the title but have this info.. perhaps you will read it yourself, easy and quick read that it is! The correct title is “My Life After Death, A memoir from heaven” by Erik Medhus. I am a retired Hospice nurse. There is so much to be done in “ grief work”. I wish I could have helped family members even a fraction in the message your work conveys. Bless you on your journey.
Hospice nurses are true angels. Don’t worry about not having done enough!