Do not be unwilling to change what you have already put into place. It is the belief that what you have created is finished or ready to go that could be keeping something even better from emerging. Do not allow this idea to put pressure on you. We are not saying that you are not good enough. Far from it! You, too, are perfection unfolding, but how do you know what perfection is? You chip away here, polish a bit there, and continue creating. Ever onward, ever upward, and learning to live with the eternal nature of flow instead of “get it done once and for all.” Life is a process. It is good enough already … the rest is for the experience and the joy of growth.
You are so very loved.
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“It’s a process”, my grandson always told me. I saw that as an excuse. He knew better, and so do i…now. I understand so much more since he passed. I believe in so much more. He has rekindled the search I let fall by the wayside, so many years ago. My process now is to banish the grief and find the joy!
What a beautiful way to honor your grandson. I know he is well pleased.
So helpful for my life changes today. Thank you all.
That sense of second guessing is difficult. It is so easy to wonder , why? Why not, me? The idea that it feels that way because I resist the changes needed is very useful. Thankyou for that encouragement to change. Trying to enshrine the past is “safe” but not very smart. Thankyou again for reminding me of that.