Why do you do anything? Ask yourself this question before you embark on a new project. Stop. Breathe. Ask, “What is my motive?” The answer will point to the self and others. You know which motives are for the self and which are selfless. It does not have to be all or nothing. Picture a sliding scale and seek balance between selfish and selfless when you do anything. Imbalance in either direction leads to disharmony.
You are so very loved.