Yes, you are tested all the time. And yes, the answer is always love if you wish to enjoy the results of those tests. They do not arise as a punishment, but as opportunities to see or “test” how much you understand the great unifying Force of all that is. Until you understand that all arises from and as Love, your challenges will appear to be tests. When you understand that nothing can be separated from anything else, you will understand each opportunity as a test of your understanding and rejoice, “Oh my! I may use this to practice being Who I really Am!” Set your test anxiety aside and simply do and be what comes more naturally than breathing.
You are so very loved.