It is one thing to be self-centered. It is another thing to be Self-centered. You in your role as a human may believe yourself to be separate from the whole, but this is not possible. Only in your thoughts do you operate in isolation. If you are feeling isolated, go within and find the center that never changes. This is the same still point which all other experience. Now shift your focus to the wholeness of which you are a part in your outer world. Each moment in which you find yourself with another, focus on that temporary wholeness and we dare say you will see self and Self in a w-holy new light.
You are so very loved.