A house is built one brick and stick at a time. It is taken down much less carefully. You have built up habits, patterns, ways of being one thought and experience at a time. Some of your way of being in the house that is your story, serves you well. Other rooms could stand a bit of updating or renovation. Will you take them apart bit by bit or give those rooms that no longer serve you a complete makeover? It need not take long once you realize that change is in order. Beautification from the inside out can take place as quickly as noticing where the light needs to shine and turning it up. You are so very loved.
***
Great minds think alike, because I’ve used a similar analogy for years, Suzanne. BRAVO!
Lora
I have been looking over my whole past since I moved into this apartment with Paul.thewonderful husband who just died of leukemia, I am 84,I see my bad choices and my lack of acting for the common good. I have made bad choices though I had a sense of goodness and opportunity. I have married well twice and married poorly twice. I have always sought the spirit world. I had meditation guidance. I
asked my recently passed husband to haunt me. and found indications that he is doing so. He definitely watched me paint yesterday and now I see more I need to improve with my painting.
I found a stack of music he loved and see that it is good for both of us to listen to. I was single for 25 years and worked with young children with reading problems and also trained their teachers.
I have a son who hates me, and another who is more kind. My grand daughters are wonderful to me, but disowned by my son who is prickly with me.
You are correct, I need to slow down and neaten up my apartment. I have a very hard time with my computer and every so often I just throw up my hands. I am letting my friend Julie help me with my computer problems.
When my first husband committed sueside, he asked me to help him come back. I couldn’t do that but I tried to connect him with his two sons. It is horrible to watch sons grow up without their own father. The man I chose to help raise them was a poor choice and his three kids were some help. He was not a good father to any one and a horrible husband for me.
Now I am loosing my eye sight and I have just had surgery for colon cancer. I believe in reincarnation and the continuation of the soul after the body wastes away. Thank you for coming into my life. I need your instruction.
To all beautiful souls, the first step is to shift to observer mode, which is how the soul sees, and see how we are playing roles. We tell our stories as if they are the only part of us. We are BOTH human roles and souls. Shift to soul awareness to truly understand those times when we got so caught up in the stories/roles that we went off track. Make choices from soul-awareness.