Raspberries … such a beautiful fruit, bursting with sweet juice, and such a vibrant red color … so pleasing to the eye, yet what happens when you bite into the berry? There you find a multitude of seeds that become lodged between the teeth and prove irritating. And so, you find an alternate way of eating the raspberry. Instead of chewing, you press down lightly and thus enjoy the juice and the sweet flavor without the irritants.
Is not your life like this at times? Are there not numerous irritations and people who get stuck between your teeth, so to speak? They will always be there. They are part of the “berry”, but are they not surrounded by sweetness and beauty?
Do not chew so hard. Do not bite down and grind away when the irritants make their presence known, but merely acknowledge they are there and savor the sweetness anyway. The seeds all play a role, as do you. Savor this life, irritants and all, remembering that irritants are in the mind. It is all in how you choose to consume each beautiful experience. Focus not on the seeds, but on the sweetness. It is all around you.
Just love raspberries. Bought some today instead of grapes. I happen to really like the seeds but not "irritating" and grumpy people who get under your skin.
"They will always be there, they are part of the berry". Instead, focus on the sweetness of life that surrounds us each day.
Jennifer
Yes, we need to remember that "the irritants are in the mind". We can choose "how to consume each experience".
I have been the berry.. and the seed.
Time, awareness,love and forgiveness have the potential to bring the sweetness out of the most bitter of human fruits.
"Savor this life, irritants and all…" Embrace the journey, and learn from our experiences. Choose to find the love in all.
On to "focusing on the sweetness" today and always…