Why do you feel you can tell a partner what they should do when you would not think of giving such advice to a friend?  For you spend so much time with your energy fields merging and dancing that at times you believe the two are one.  And then, there is the human desire to “have it your way.”  You think that if you can control that other, then your immediate experience will be more pleasant.  Do you see why relationships are your greatest teachers and your most immediate opportunities for growth?  What if you did not try to change the other but observed and adjusted your own thoughts and actionsl?  In reality, there is no separation at all between any of you.  Each of you is the one Light expressing itself through different lenses.  When one lens tries to control another, it is no wonder misunderstandings occur. 

You are so very loved.