You cannot be all things for all people. Honor the Self. You came here to shine the light of the soul in your unique ways. If you bend and shape yourself according to others’ desires, you are not being true to the Self. The soul has its unique signature … a calling that is felt from within. What is your passion? Follow it. As you do so, there is peace. As you deny it, there is conflict. Inner guidance tells you when you are in and out of balance. Interactions with others either resonate or does not with the inner guidance. At times the conflict is uncomfortable. Rather than running from it, notice it. Ask it what it has to tell you. Listen carefully and adjust as guided by the Self. This is a dance. May you enjoy it fully.
You are so very loved.