When you feel as if you cannot go on after a loss, know that you can. You are still here for a reason. Pain is part of the process of grief. Few escape it, but it is also part of the human belief system and need not be quite so unbearable. How is this possible? Imagine if you truly knew that death is a simple transition to another phase of existence. Imagine if you knew your loved ones who have passed are watching you and are with you when you think of them … at your side when you call. Imagine if you knew they are at peace and are waiting for you patiently, knowing that you still have work to do on earth.
Imagine if you knew that they feel your pain. Imagine. Why, then you would see that pain is not fully necessary. You would see that it all stems from thoughts and habit. Yes, you must develop new habits, and being without the physical presence and assurances is one of your greatest challenges, but in comparison to never seeing those you love again, it pales. You will see them again. Rest assured of this. And when you can clear the grief from your heart and find peace in this awareness, then that is exactly where you will find them—in that place that still joins you: the heart.
You are so very loved.
Thank you for your daily lesson and thought. You are an Angel. ??
My Husband passed just over a month ago. He had Dementia and I was his Caregiver. Although now I have time to take care of me, I miss that he is not here with me in physical form and I constantly need reassurance that he not dead and that he is here with me even if I don’t see him. I want to be able to connect and communicate with him and have an ongoing relationship with him for the time I am here until I completely mege with him again. I am so grateful that I found you on YouTube and have been watching you and learning how to meditate so that I can connect with my Husband, but I have not been able to. I wanted to get a Reading from you but you were booked for the next 4 years and not taking anymore on the waiting list. So I called up a few Psychics/Mediums and none of them gave me evidence that it’s my Husband. So disappointing!! Then I saw that you were offering a Mediumship Course and I immediately signed up for it. My intent is to connect with my Husband, then use my ability as an Evidential Medium to channel for my Family, Friends and Community. Thank you, Suzanne, Spirit Guides, Sanaya, and your Administrative Team, for all you do, to provide comfort and healing for humanity’s sake!! I love you all!!
I feel just the same x
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Thank you Sanaya for your wonderful words. I am struggling every day to come to acceptance of the loss of the physical presence of my samesex partner Derek. I have had a realisation that I can access happiness from the spirit in it’s purest form. Complete independent happiness in simply being and not that caused by another person. Pure love and pure happiness. But it helps knowing that my departed will never be gone completely.
Beautifully put, David. I feel your grief and I feel the beauty of your struggle. Many if us share this with you – we share our own and all grief transitioning to connection with more. Love to you from THIS heart.
Thank you Sanaya for your wonderful words and the hope they give me.
Thank you so much, very timely!!
Thank you, thank you, thank you…
Thank-you I needed to read this having lost my partner with cancer last September and I still cannot believe that he is gone. I have had signs, when he appears in dreams and calls my name and things seem to happen the following day which match the dreams. My light bulb flickered and went out when I ask once if he could see me and I have had a few pictures fall down. A white crocus appeared on my birthday in a flower pot where I had sprinkled some of his ashes. But like Mei I just would love to feel his presence on a daily basis. I have tried meditating to contact him but usually end up crying or going to sleep.
These beautiful words are the most reassuring I have ever seen and how I wish they or similar had been available to me 13 years ago when my beloved husband passed. As my intuition has developed, I have come to recognise the signs he sends, but oh boy, how frustrated he must have been with me in the early days. Thank you Sanaya and Suzanne xx
Perhaps one of the most poignant and beautifully written sentiments ever penned.
Thank you. I miss my husband so very much……… I have faith in our being together but still. He was so kind, tender, gentle, sweet and loving. Being on earth without him is so very hard. Thank you for reminders.
Suzanne, my Dad transitioned around noon on Thursday 3/17. I very much appreciate Sanay’s message today. It was a number of years ago that Jim and I attended your Mediumship workshop and as a demonstration you asked Jim and me to come up front to be read. You brought through Jim’s Dad and the story of Jim helping his Dad build onto their home. Then my Mom came through with a very high exuberance level compared to Jim’s Dad who was a very even, steady energy. Mom was apparently jumping up and down, clapping, so excited that she could connect with me. Then you saw the image of the Cracker Jack sailor and asked who served in the Navy because that was your symbol for someone who passed having served in the Navy. We couldn’t come up with anyone at the time, but after we took a break, we told you the only person we could think of was my Dad who did serve in the Navy, but that he hadn’t passed, but he had dementia. You said, “That’s it! When people have dementia, they often play on the other side.” or something to that effect. It made me very happy to know that he was enjoying some time on the other side. He passed on Thursday, and must certainly have felt quite at home, having already been playing on the other side. I had this image of him doing backflips, free of his body and free of dementia. How wonderful to read Sanay’s reassuring words this morning. Thank you!
I’m so sorry dir yoir loss, Nancy! Thank you for sharing. Muy Mom passed away 4 months ago. She had demencia, too. And I hope she had been playing on the other side, too. She often was saying sehr wanted to go home sind was calling for her mother ans father and sister. She said her sister was in her bedroom and other people. Sending you love
Thank you for everything you do. You have helped me so much with my grief. If it weren’t for you my suffering would be so unbearable.
I lost my husband Dec.2020 to an accident. He was 76. Living without him has been so hard. I miss him so much especially his daily hugs. He was a very kind loving man who everyone really liked. I loved him dearly. He was a wonderful husband. What I have learned from you has been so helpful. I listen to you as much as possible. I have learned to talk to him and ask for signs. I spend time everyday riding in the car going through the countryside which is something we did together, Because of your teachings I do believe that he is still with me including in the car. My husband and I were both teachers. We lived in PA on a 44 acre farm in the middle of nature with a stream, woods, and fields where I still live without any neighbors close by. We spent many hours sitting in our rocking chairs on our porch overlooking nature. We were married 52 years, but we were together almost 60 including going to college. We have no children so our whole life involved doing things together from household chores to going on many trips including 4 trips to Africa. We started by tenting and eventually got a camper and then an RV and traveled the US and Canada with it like you do with Ty. He was a biology teacher. We both loved nature and were avid bird watchers. Birds have been an important part of our life so the signs I ask for are something to do with birds. I will tell you a few he has shown me. One day 2 bald eagles flew close by my car and then they turned around and flew by again which I had never seen any do, in very early spring he showed me eastern bluebirds and robins unexpectedly, then I saw common mergansers in the stream I was driving by, next to the road one day was a flock of cedar waxwings which we seldom saw, he showed me a flock of 50 wild turkeys in a field, I had been asking to see a great blue heron because he loved fishing which we did often and blue herons are in streams looking for fish so he showed me a great blue heron rookery where the birds were flying overhead and 2 were getting large sticks and building a nest which I had never seen before, I saw a large flock with hundreds of snow geese going right over my car. There is a bald eagle nest 20 miles away and he showed me the eagles exchanging sitting on the nest and also leaving the nest and returning while I am watching. This morning I said that I want to see the phoebe return, and when I went on the porch I saw a phoebe. Each day I think there will not be any new signs, but then something happens that surprises me, and I am sure he is telling me he is near and we can enjoy these signs together like we did when he was here. The other day near a lake I had to pull off the road because I couldn’t reach something in the car. Right next to the car was a tree with a large red painted heart and above it were big letters in red J+J which are our initials. I had driven past this many times and never saw it. I think he made me pull over so I could see it. It was like he had written it even though I know some other lovers did it. I am looking forward to whatever more he has to show me to let me know he is right near me. I think you are great and have been a blessing to so many people. I felt I wanted to share experiences of getting what I believe are signs from him so others will ask their loved ones for signs. Everyone should listen to Jimmy Fortune sing Far Side Banks of Jordan on YouTube. I am sure my husband will be there by the water and come running to see me as the song says. I am looking forward to seeing him on the other side. Thanks again. You are so loved by me and many others.
All that I can say is “Wow!” I look forward to all of the daily messages, but this one especially resonated with me—so beautifully said. Suzanne and Sanaya have been my main source of strength, inspiration, and hope during this past very painful year, and I will be forever grateful! ❤️
Thank you. I really am trying to believe all this. My twenty-one year old grandson took his own life five months ago. I cannot even look at pictures of him. It is so painful to know that the beautiful little boy in those photos grows up to take his own life at such a young age. His birthday is coming up on March 30. I don’t even know how to survive that day when every day is so painful.
Lori, I am so sorry for this time of pain and sadness for you. Please know that your grandson was welcomed Home with love and no judgment. He is surrounded by love. I encourage you to go to the website https://www.helpingparentsheal.org/. You will find so much understanding and help from fellow parents and grandparents who have children/grandchildren on the other side.
Thank you, I will.
In one of her wonderful uplifting talks Suzanne showed and let us hear the special “gongs” which play music. Would you please let me know where they can be purchased?
Thank you, Antonia
Here’s a link for the N.O.W. Tone Therapy System. https://www.nowbysolu.com/
Thank you, Bev, for sending me the link to the toning speakers. I am exited to use them as a focus for meditation.